When it comes to date ideas, we want to be original and different from the guys in her past. A dinner and a movie, although entertaining, are probably boring her by now and just won’t cut it. It’s time to find something refreshing and new…something that is extremely fun and worth remembering. A date should never be boring and dull–it should full of entertainment and excitement. Try hard to be unique and she will remember you forever.
The main goal here is to find a place that is fun and different. You will need to think differently from the rest of the pack. Think about how many times a girl has been taken out to dinner and a movie. It doesn’t matter if you take her to the most expensive restaurant in the world and watch a potential Oscar-winning movie–she has been there and done that before and she’s sick and tired of it. Women want a man who is different from all the rest, so be different.
Don’t get me wrong, dinner and movie dates are OK once you have established a relationship and have been dating a woman for a couple of months. In the meantime, however, you need to spice things up. Once you’re officially a couple, anything goes. But if you want to really impress a woman you need to go that extra mile to show her a good time.
It is very important to think of something that is not commonly done in everyday dating. Looking for a place to go on a date can be tricky, but it is not hard. Simple places like an aquarium, a park, and a beach are all great choices. These locations give you ample amount of time to have face-to-face conversations–unlike being in a movie theater where you cannot talk and have to be quiet.
Women really enjoy interacting on their dates, so remember that. She’s just getting to know you and you need to show her you’re not a creep. Try your best to choose a place where you can walk around and see different things all on one date. Also, while on a date, you do not need to spend a lot of money. To most women, the amount that is spent on the date does not really matter–it is the creativity. So be creative.
Try your absolute very best not to choose something too extreme like a bar. A bar will be too loud and you will have to practically yell at each other just to hear each other speak. It’s also not a good idea to involve alcohol early on in a relationship–especially if you like to drink heavily. Don’t let her see your rowdy side until she’s ready. The first couple of dates should be about her, not you. If you can’t have a good time without alcohol, you have other problems besides dating.
I have heard complaints from girls who have expressed their frustration because guys have taken them out on boring dates like miniature golfing or the mall to window shop. What the hell? Window shopping on a date? Not dapper. Don’t be the weirdo that does things like this. If you want to go to the mall, fine. Just be prepared to buy her something. Don’t let her look around and get excited only to let her down.
Some women do not care where they go as long as you’re not boring. Have confidence and do not be shy. Talk to your date. Do not go one minute without saying anything. Do not let that awkward silence occur. You need to prove yourself to her, not the other way around. Being dapper means taking control. Be the dapper man that she has wanted her entire life.
Always change up your dating scene and be unique and original. Creativity is always sexy to a woman and it will always get you more dates with the girl you are trying to court. Also, plot out your date well in advance and do not wait until the last minute. Never ask her, “so what do you wanna do?” Women hate being asked this question. When you pick her up you should have the entire date planned out and not have to worry about a thing.
What are some of your favorite date ideas? Let us know in the comments section below.